Michele Colon Ruined Our Marriage Pt.3
In Part 2 of this series, we learned the fact that the former husband and Michele’s relationship grew stronger, in part, due to their counseling with the Pastor of the World Mission Society Church of God. Michele’s former husband tells how he made it his life goal to live a happy life with Michele in their newly purchased house, following God and the Bible at the Church of God.
Now in Part 3 of this series, we will learn more about the issues between Michele and her then husband, and how the Church again helped them during their trials.
Everything seemed to be going well in my relationship with Michele. We had our wedding, which the Church members helped us prepare. We went on our honeymoon. Contrary to the allegation that Church members cannot go on vacation, Michele and I went to Mexico.
Once we returned from our honeymoon everything changed. On a Tuesday, Michele called me at work to tell me that she needed to show me something. She said that she had been looking for more evidence to show that Constantine did indeed abolish the Sabbath, but she had come across some other websites that spoke against the Church of God. I remember her mentioning that the Church “lied” to her in regards to some of its teachings.
After speaking to her, we decided not to attend service that very night. I remember Michele being very angry and stating that she felt like a fool for attending the Church, but I on the other hand felt lost. Lost because I knew that everything I had learned until that point was clear and it was coming from the Bible. I knew that nowhere else would I be able to see and study the Bible in this way, and my time as a Church member had filled me with a lot of happiness in my life. I felt that there had to be some sort of explanation and reason, why at that particular moment, it seemed not to make sense.
We decided to go and meet with the Pastor in order to get answers for our questions and express the concerns we had. As we met with the Pastor and some other church members, I felt satisfied with all the answers that were provided, while Michele was not as satisfied at all. But by the end of the meeting, we both decided we would continue to attend the Church.
Although Michele agreed to continue attending the Church, I felt as if she did not want to remain a member. The questions that Michele presented to the Church from that point on were not sincere, and even if she was given an accurate answer, Michele did not try to understand the answer. It seemed from that point on, her mission was to make me agree with her completely in an effort to make me leave the Church.
After this, we began arguing nonstop. No matter what we may have been discussing or arguing about, by the end of it, Michele would bring something up about the Church. Every night, I felt like I had to defend my faith to my wife, who did not want to respect nor tolerate my religious beliefs. She continuously said spiteful things in order to hurt my feelings. This was her tactic to get me to leave the Church.
It seemed that the more I became involved with the Church, the more Michele attacked me. Now that I look back, I wonder sometimes if she was just using the Church to get what she wanted, which was for us to get married. Michele had this obsession with marriage, she always talked about the fact that her Mom was going to get married a second time, before she even got married once.
After several months of intense and increasingly hurtful arguments, I went to the Pastor many times, determined to speak to him about my plan to leave Michele, but on every occasion, he consoled me and advised me not to leave her, but instead to stay with her and even give her more love, in the hope that we would find a common ground where we could both be happy in our marriage.
Taking the Pastor’s advice, I tried to spend more time with her for months thereafter, while attempting to keep my faith in God despite her objection, but nothing was good enough for her. She would not be happy until I left the Church. She wanted me to make a decision, which I thought was unfair, she wanted me to decide either her or the Church. Why should I give up either one of the things that I love? Why can’t I have my wife and my faith both be part of my life?
Michele Colón made her former husband’s life miserable, even asking for an unreasonable demand. In society, there are many couples who have different beliefs, yet they remain happily married. If that wasn’t enough, Michele introduced him to the Church, but now that Michele didn’t want to be part of the Church, she wanted him to leave also. When he decided to remain a member, Michele couldn’t tolerate it and she made it her goal to make him leave the Church.
In Part 4 of our series, we will begin to learn how Michele’s behavior was the main factor in the demise of her marriage.
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Wow, I’m shocked how far this went.
I just want to say something: my mom is part of the Church of God, but my dad is not. My dad knows everything about the church, truth and rumors – like the ones Michele is spreading – yet he never fights with my mom and never makes her choose him or the church.
Even though they have a different belief they are still able to live in harmony. This goes to show that it’s not the church that causes marriages or relationship to fail but it’s because one person wants to control or didn’t have things their way.
I’m sorry this happened, but just because it didn’t work out, you can’t just spread rumors about the church of God. -
Many people try to use others to obtain what they want and when they don’t need them any more they throw them away. That’s what i feel she did with the church because they helped her with her marriage and repair their house. But when both them were done, now she speaks against the church.
I don’t understand why speak against. I went to other churches before and when I left them because I didn’t want to continue going I just left but never spoke against them. But Michelle is being very unreasonable to take this to the extreme and blasphemy against the Church of God that has no faults. I hope people can see the truth and judge correctly about all the facts given.
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Michelle has really ruined her own marriage and is bringing complete misery to on her own physical life and eternal destruction to her own spiritual life. It’s one thing to have a failed marriage and another thing to have a change in your religious beliefs, both come about by a person’s own personal decision, there is no evidence that Church of God mandated neither of these things take place. Church of God can never be blamed in this situation, no matter how you look at it. In order for Church of God to be blamed for her failed marriage, there should be some evidence that the Church of God told her to get a divorce or leave the marriage. Answers to spiritual questions were provided from the Bible. By reading all three parts so far, what stands out to me is that they were having problems before coming to the Church of God. As time went along, these problems got temporarily better because they joined the church, the member’s help with the wedding planning and home rennovations. But once Michelle got what she physically wanted, she sought and pursued a way to destroy what the Church of God helped her to keep in the beginning through following the Internet and following her own mind. She was never forced to come to the Church of God and in fact invited herself and invited her now ex-husband. This reveals clearly a couple of valuable things that I admire about the World Misson Society Church of God. Church of God strongly promotes family conflict resolution that allows us to fulfill our commitment to God through the sacred covenant of marriage. If we keep the teachings of Father and Mother to just follow the Lamb wherever He goes, without following our own rebellious mind and other sources rather than the Bible, which most often opposes the will of God, everything would go well. I am greatful that the truth is being revealed about Michelle and that her now ex-husband story is giving a more clearer picture of what is the real truth behind so many layers of lies that Michelle has been trying to use to slander our church. When you fight continously against God, your plan will always fail (Acts 5:38). Life is short, spending time spreading The Truth is a life well spent.
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After reading these articles, there is a very clear understanding of what really happened. The church never really did anything but to help and contribute for them; studying the bible, helped them with their brand new home, with their marriage preparations, with their marriage problems, with her questions that were answered and maybe a lot more. . I mean, what more is there to want? Personally, who in their right mind will accused the church of breaking your marriage, when clearly the church wanted your marriage to survive. I believe that the problem it wasn’t the church or the husband. Who was the one who said make a decision, either the church or me? Michele Colon. From the question, it is very clear that she wanted to overpower their marriage, wanted to take control of her husband and his faith and beliefs. At the end, Michele completely failed to accept her husband choice of religion and now they are separated because of it.
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Now I can see how this is all began, its clear she used the church in order to accomplish her dreams of being married. Her only focus was on accomplish her own desire and would not stop until she got what she wanted. She is the reason her marriage did not work out, not the church. She could’ve continue her marriage without being a member of the church, instead she choose to make her ex husbands life miserable. Now she desires to disturb the church, when she could easily move on with her life.
She failed in her wish to take her husband out of the church and she will surely fail in her efforts to slander the church.
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These articles are continuing to show that the World Mission Society is a beautiful church. How much the Pastor and the members continued to help their marriage? It’s not right that she blames the Church for her marital problems. If anything, the Church is the reason the two got married and stayed married for as long as they have. It’s good that the truth is coming out clearly.
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Once again this just shows how people are always looking to blame others around them for their mistakes, problems and mishaps in life. Honesty comes along way in life and is something that Michele needs to input in her’s. She had a loving husband and a beautiful church community that did not spare time nor efforts to help her remodel her home. Instead of Michele admitting that she was wrong and the cause of her marriage to break up, Michele would rather make false accusations to bring negativity to her husbands image and one of the very things that brings him joy; The Church of God and the Members.
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Honestly, it seemed like once she realized that her ex-husband really enjoyed coming to the WMSCOG, she became jealous. Then she started looking for excuses trying to find faults in the church for her to leave. Truly, there is NOTHING wrong with the WMSCOG, it is an amazing church and now all her lies are being exposed. She also deliberately used the members and church to benefit herself.
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I have attended the WMSCOG for the majority of my adult life. My wife and I have never had any problems and we also have a beautiful son. All these allegations are lies and truth will always prevail.
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Reading this article sure makes you wander what is it that Michelle saw that made her change like that? I mean, Sabbath continues to be Saturday and Passover continues to be Christ’s flesh and blood. Had she not seen the “evidence on the Internet” she would have probably continued with her marriage. Simple facts: Husband and Michelle after joining Church of God = Happy. Husband and Michelle after reading the Internet = Ruined marriage. Who’s really to blame? It’s pretty obvious to me 🙂
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The most appalling part of this story is that it seems like Michele Colon used the church to get her way (marriage) though she didn’t agree with the biblical teachings of the church. It doesn’t make sense to me that she would agree with the Pastor’s advice on marriage and yet question God’s teaching about the Sabbath. How convenient that she “came across” some “evidence” that the teachings were false RIGHT after the honey moon… What lawyer would take her case seriously?
God truly reveals the true motives of men’s hearts.
I’m so happy that Father Christ Ahnsahnghong and Heavenly Mother called me to believe in this amazing truth, The Gospel of The New Covenant. All this is proof that there are people who do not belong to God.
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In retrospect, it is good that situations like this take place as examples to learn from and so that the lies and misunderstandings about World Mission Society Church of God can be made sense of. I hope that this can be a lesson for those that have been poisoned with lies and misunderstandings similar to this one.
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This is intense, we all make irrational decisions based on emotions and often times at that point our judgement is wrong. Patience is a virtue and that was not found in Michele in what was just explained by her former husband. We should love God through thick and thin and that’s exactly what he did . Basing faith on false rumors and allegations is definitely not the way, we should firmly believe in the word of God. This shows that we should have love of God deeply in our hearts in all situations before anything else and through that overcome. Michele’s foundation was not love for God at all, only selfish ambition.
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I don’t understand how Michele Colon can be so deceptive about the reality of the Church of God. I’ve been attending Church of God for a few years now, and I’ve never seen them “destroy” marriages. Actually they encourage and build up family bonds by teaching us the love from God. I’ve been to many churches and I’ve never seen such genuine, selfless, sincere people. Church of God members always give love without ever expecting something back, their love encouraged me to love and care for others also. Before I started attending I was very selfish and didn’t care about anyone besides my self, this behavior aroused many family issues and a broken family bond. After coming to Church of God I learned compassion and love that I now share with my Family and Friends making our bond stronger. I thank Church of God for making me a better person and teaching me the TRUE definition if LOVE. It is so sad that Michele Colon decided to take part in the sharing of HATRED and deceptive teachings, Instead of sharing in Love of God and the truth.
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Wow, if she just left him alone and had religious tolerance and fairness, this could have all been avoided. Even though he tried to love her more, following God’s teachings, she refused it for drama. What a shame!
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